Friends Plus

I am looking for a long term friend with benefits, but the friend part has to come first. I want to get to know you, spend time chatting, texting, talking etc before we get to the benefits part. Looking for an intelligent, thoughtful and respectful man notice I said man…not boy. Prefer age 30-49, working [...]
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Shira:
I don't want to lose her as a friend but my girlfriend just won't accept that I don't have feelings for her.
(14 November 2016)

Shira:
I don't like her anymore and realized we'd only be good as friends because we're insanely similar.
(14 November 2016)

Shira:
The only problem is that now my girlfriend is jealous of her.
(14 November 2016)

Shira:
Now we're dating but the original girl is single now and we've become good friends again.
(14 November 2016)

Shira:
I was somewhat devastated and started venting to the original girls best friend because we worked together, and eventually we started to become a thing.
(14 November 2016)

Shira:
So me and this girl were talking and pretty close to dating, then she pulled the plug and started dating another guy.
(14 November 2016)

Afton:
My bestfriend whom is also my crush, has major boyfriend problems?
(14 November 2016)

Afton:
And on what I should say to her about Zach.
(14 November 2016)

Afton:
Kept in mind I do like Em, but don't want to become a rebound.
(14 November 2016)

Afton:
So what I'm asking here is your opinion on what I should do?
(14 November 2016)